Friday 11 July 2008

Do you agree?

I think it is better to agree to disagree on something than to disagree to agree on something.

What do you think?

8 comments:

anar said...

Hmm i think its dealing with the pain of not agreeing is better or may be feels that one can swallow it. While on the other hand if we were not to agree with someone there would be a 2 sided pain - one of not being able to understand and realise the other person point and two that we are disappointing someone by not agreeing..

what say?

Nishchal Shukla નિશ્ચલ શુક્લ said...

Hmm...partly agree with it (i mean i don't disagree...partly :))...what i meant when i wrote this line was..that many a times we argue because we do not agree...and that is partly because we dont really understand the other person's point of view...sometimes we totally understand but still disagree...but in the argument it might happen that no one is ready to give up - 'disagree to agree' and that ends up in a bitter feeling (unless the 2 ppl really know each other well). A better situation would be when they know each other well and appreciate what the other person says but still hold on to their view and agree that they have their own views - 'agree to disagree'

I know bada complicated hai....

anar said...

but mostly you are okay with the disagreeing bit only if you know the person right?

if you dont know the person then you might just smile away...

strange huh.. knowing the person still means that you are gong to be more comfy disagreeing!

Pooja said...

it's better 2 agree to disagree...
at least, u r agreeing 2 something...

Anonymous said...

i think i am confused!:P

Arun said...

haaa... so agree rather than disagree... but the sentence itself is contradictory :)... phew!! took me 5 mins to untangle the sentence and make out what it meant... :-)

Nishchal Shukla નિશ્ચલ શુક્લ said...

hmm...next time i ll try writing something that is confusing to me :) that may not be confusing for others i guess...

KB said...

Dude, it's Oxymoron kind of statement.

It's "Open Secret"